Date (Phoenix dactylifera) Sweetness and tenderness. To view all living things as our own, including strangers. For overcoming judgmental, negative attitudes or thoughts of separateness from others. Encourages discrimination, receptivity, open-mindedness, and sensitivity to others’ feelings, allows us to be easy to talk to, welcoming, magnetic, and warm-hearted. Good for people who work with the public. Also for self-nurturing when life seems harsh.